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Posting Requests to  Patti L Rhinesmith, RWG Secretary at NewJersey.OESGC@gmail.com   
GC Ofc 908-725-0222

Notary services are available, please call Grand Chaper Office for assistance. 


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PHOTO GALLERY ON WEBSITE
Please contact Lorraine Altimus if you are interested in putting any photos on the website. 

Sister Lorraine Altimus, PGO will be serving as photographer this year.  If you are looking to have pictures taken for the Grand Matron and Grand Patron's memory books, please contact her at your earliest convenience.  Her contact information is in the Official List Book. 

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VOLUNTARY DONATIONS 2024-2025

Envelopes for the new 2024-2025 will be in the Star Journal mailing in September 2024.   Again, the Chapter Secretaries will not be mailing them out this year. 

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One Call

Sign up for One Call - Expires 5/31 of each year.   Cost is $10.00

ONE CALL NOW.2024.docx


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All "Star Journal" issues, current and past can be found on the NJOES home page, under the information tab.

There are two issues printed yearly, March and September.

The new issue is now out and in the mail,  it can also be found on the information bar on the front page of the website.

Anyone wanting to submit an article for the next issue, please send it to Joann Bingenheimer by January 1, 2025.  


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Aug 28, 2023 Grand Representative of New Jersey Newsletter

NEWSLETTER OCT 2024 GRANJ.pdf

NEWSLETTER JANUARY 2024 GRANJ.pdf

NEWSLETTER OCT 2023 GRANJ.pdf.......



August 2024

Letter from the MWGM and MWGP 2024-2025


2024 - September letter (1).pdf




Sept. 23rd GOWN BOUTIQUE - February 15, 2025

There will be another Gown Boutique on February 15, 2025.  Continue to save your gowns, and they can be brought the da of the sale. 
   





Receptions and District Meetings, Holiday Party
January 11th 34th District Meeting
Come experiment with the M.A.D. Scientists at the 34th District meeting to be held on January 11, 2025 at Olive Branch Lodge, Freehold.  Time 12:30pm luncheon, Cost $25.00.  makes checks payable and mailed to Maryadele O'Neil, no later than December 31, 2024, mjoneiloes@gmail.com


November 20th Nutley Chapter #121 - Honor Night for WG Marshal, GR of Colorado and GR of Maine - November 20, 2024
Nutley Chapter invites you to attend an honor night for Deborah LeDoux, WG Marshal, Michael Emerson, GR of Colorado and Theresa Casper, GR of Maine on Wednesday November 20th, at 6:30pm, Cost $5.00 at Nutley Chapter No. 121, Nutley NJ.  This will be an Ice Cream Social.  RSVP by November 10th, to Sharon Klabenesh, PGO at slklab@yahoo.com


November 16th 37th District Meeting - November 16th, 2024
The "Enchanted Roses" cordially invite you to attend the 37th District meeting on November 16, 2024 at 12:30 pm, at Clarksboro Masonic Lodge, Clarksboro.  Cost $25.00, lunch will be sandwiches and salads.  Mail checks to Lisa Crank, and checks are to be made payable to V. Kaye Jenking.  Deadline November 1st.


November 11th Molly Pitcher Chapter #198 - Open Reception for GR of North Dakota
Molly Pitcher Chapter cordially invites you to attend an open reception for Joyce Calabro, GR of North Dakota on November 11, 2024.  dinner at 6:30pm Cost $25.00.  Meal to include salad, pork tenderloin, vegetables, drinks and dessert.   RSVP by October 10th.  Checks made payable to Molly Pitcher #198 and mailed to Diane Prochnow.

 

Upcoming Dates  -- see Chapter & District Fundraisers below
June 1, 2023 UPCOMING DATES - 2024-2025

    
Oct. 19th - Halloween Hoot - Crescent Shrine
     Oct. 20th - Reunion - Believe in Dreams Reunion
     Oct. 22nd - Top 3 - Morning Star #22
     Oct. 24th - GO Night - Gloria #159
     Oct. 26th - 31st - General Grand Chapter 51st Triennial
     Oct. 27th - Quinns Quest
     Oct. 31st - Happy Halloween





  Upcoming Trip 2024-2025

  Triennial General Grand Chapter
Come join us as we travel to the Triennial at Myrtle Beach, South Carolina on October 26th through November 1st, 2024.  See attached flyer for more information.

2024 Triennial Trip v2.pdf


Those Sisters and Brothers who are planning to go to the Triennial, please let Barbara Helfrey know.  The hotel needs a room count.  She needs this by August 15th if you plan to attend. 


 
  Come join Sister Sharon and Brother Joe on a Cruise
Sailing from Bayonne to St. Marten, St. Lucia, Barbadoes and St. Kitts
January 16, 2025 to January 27, 2025

Book now with: Cruise Concepts Travel, Pompton Plains, NJ - 973-616-9662

Eastern Star St. Lucia 2025.pdf



 
  Grand Chapter Fundraisers
  WINE AND ROSES BALL - NOVEMBER 23, 2024
The Wine and Roses Charity Ball will be held at the Jumping Brook Country Club, Neptune. 

See flyer attached.
cb_invite_1.docx

flyer also attached for ad
Ad_book_2024.docx


  HALLOWEEN HOOT - HALLOWEEN PARTY
OCTOBER 19, 2024

To be held at the Crescent Shrine Center, Westampton, Time 6 - 11pm.  Cost $25.00, Refreshments, and beverages included.  Make checks payable to Voluntary Donations - (Halloween Hoot - in subject line ) 

Halloween Hoot


 

  **REUNIONS & GET-TOGETHERS**
August 17th
Believe in Dreams Reunion - October 20, 2024
Come celebrate with Lynn and Ken's Deputies: #31-Gloria, #32-Joan, and #39-Gloria to the 4th Reunion of Believe in Dreams year.  To be held at Clifton Masonic Temple, Clifton.  Time 2:00pm, Cost $25.00, menu - Salad, Chicken Franchese, Rice, vegetable, cake tea, and coffee.  Please respond to: Joan Davis




Good News and Health Announcements

Oct 6th Sister Mary Lee Batesko, PGO, Gloria Chapter #159
Sister Mary Lee is home from the hospital, after having a stroke.  Her family and health care providers are with her during her recuperation.  Cards, prayers and visits from friends would be appreciated.  She does have problems with her memory and family would appreciate visits to help Mary Lee at this time. 

Oct 6th Brother Ken Billingham, PGP
Brother Ken has been home from the hospital recuperating from his hip surgery.  Cards can be sent to his home in Pennsylvania.  Please continue to keep Ken and Lynn in your prayers. 

Oct 6th Sister June Pfeifer, PGM
Sister June is with her family in Nevada for awhile.  She could use cards and prayers.  If you need her address, please contact Carol Orner, from Gloria Chapter.

   
Sorrow
Sept. 26 Brother James Hines, PGP, Dewey Chapter #155
Dewey Chapter #155 will be conducting a funeral service for Brother James Hines, PGP on Oct 15, 2024 at 7:00 PM at Dewey Masonic Lodge 220 Philadelphia Ave. Egg Harbor City, NJ 08215.

Both members of OES and non-members are invited to attend.  There will be light refreshments after the service.  Attire for members: long white for Sisters, jacket and tie for Brothers.

If you have any questions, please contact the Secretary at
oestraveler@comcast.net or 609-561-8079.


Sept. 26 Brother William Wells, PGO, Peace Chapter #98
Brother Bill passed away this afternoon.  Please keep Sister Janet, his daughters and family in your prayers.  Cards can be sent to the home.  Funeral arrangements will be held at Alwood Funeral Home, Clifton, NJ.  Services will be held on Monday.  More information will be posted when available. 

Sept 26 Betty MacPherson, Stewart Chapter #166
Sister Betty passed away on Monday September 23.  Please keep her family in your prayers.  Cards can be sent to her home. 

   

Grand Chapter Announcements
  LOST AND FOUND
Please check with Sister Debbie LeDoux, WG Marshal if you lost or found any items. 


UPDATE - 6/18/24
From last year Debbie has a gray sweater, a bumble bee pin and a silver tag that has "Because I Love You" on it.

Found at Grand Session - reading glasses.

Found at the MWGM receiving one stud earring with crystals in the shape of a flower.   

 


 Now Available
Updated Grand Chapter Highlights Book - $25.33
A synopsis of NJ Eastern Star 1870-2020.  The Highlights Book has been published and is available for sale through the Grand Chapter Office.  The cost is $25.33 each, which includes postage.  Please make your check payable to "Grand Chapter OES of NJ" and mail to Grand Chapter Office, 111 Finderne Avenue, Bridgewater, NJ  08807-3101
 
  Proceedings available for 2022-2023 - Books $35.00, CD's $15.00
Wallace/Byrne (2022-2023) - 8 CD's available


Proceedings available - Books $28, CDs $15

Capel/Parsons (2016-2017) - 11 CD's
Bingenheimer/Robinson -(2015-2016) 4 CD's
McGinley/Costello (2014-2015) - 3 CD's

  

Good News
2024-2025 Sharon & Joe's appointed Grand Officers - 2024-2025


  Sharon & Joe's Grand Representatives 2024-2025


2023-2024 Joanne & Jim's Grand Officers for 2023-2024


Joanne & Jim's Grand Representatives 2023-2024



2022-2023 Jeannette & Bernie's Grand Representatives - 2022-2023


Jeannette & Bernie's Grand Officers - 2022-2023
  
2021-2022 Daria & Bruce's Grand Officers - 2021-2022 


Daria & Bruce's Grand Representatives - 2021-2022

  

2019-2020 Norma & Dan's Grand Representatives - 2019-2021
 
2018-2019 Lynn & Ken's Grand Representatives - 2018-2019

Chapter & District Fundraisers & Notices
Oct. 19th Shekinah Chapter #82 - Luck of the Irish Shopping Spree Raffle - March 12, 2025






General Information
   

 
Charity Foundation News
Jan 21, 2023 Charity Foundation Life Skills Grant Application

OES CHARITY FOUNDATION LIFE SKILLS GRANT APPLICATION PDF.pdf

CF flyer - Linda Penin.pdf.................

Dec. 2023 The OES Charity Foundation meeting will be held on November 6th, 2024 at 7pm. It will be virtual using the link provided by below.  To receive the meeting link please send an email no later than 6pm on the day of the meeting.

To receive the meeting link each month please send an email to:  oescharityfoundationnj@gmail.com

You may not know that being a Member of the Order also makes you a member of the Charity Foundation.  As members of the Eastern Star Charity Foundation, you are always invited to attend the monthly meetings held on the 1st Wednesday of each month at 7pm. 

As the time of the meeting approaches, you will receive the link/invite for the meeting from that email account (approximately 6pm).

Normally, these meetings take place in the Board Room of the OES Home.  Due to Covid-19 we have been meeting via Grand Chapter's WebEx account.  We invite you to attend these meetings from the comfort of your own home.

As the time of the meeting approaches, you will receive the link/invite for the meeting from that email account (approximately 6pm)

The Board holds an Executive Session prior to the public portion of the meeting.  Our Executive Session may run slightly over, so please do not be discouraged if you are asked to wait in the "waiting room" (or to log off) for a few minutes. 

Please request the meeting link monthly.

Jan. 27, 2023 THE Eastern Star Charity Foundation of New Jersey, Inc. -
"Rays of Caring Capital Campaign.  "Be a Ray of Light to our Sisters and Brothers in Need".  

CAPITAL CAMPAIGN FLYER.pdf


OES Home News - website:  www.njeasternstarhome.com
          Sept 17 Message from the President of the New Jersey Eastern Star Home Board

I hope everyone had an enjoyable Summer. I have been elected to serve as President of the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Eastern Star Home. I am very honored that the Board of Directors have placed its trust in me to lead them and look forward to serving
our Home for the upcoming year. No one person can do it alone and I am honored to have the members of the Board of Directors that are serving this year to keep our Home running smoothly and I thank them for their service to our residents and Home.

Delegates Meeting
Our Annual Meeting of the Delegates was held on Saturday, June 1, 2024, in the Chapel. I want to thank everyone who attended. It is important to keep the Chapters informed as to what is going on at our Home. At our re-organization meeting the following officers
were elected, Debbie LeDoux, GO, President; Judy Wood, GO, Vice President; Jessica Walton, GO, Secretary; Diane Schmolze, PGM, Assistant Secretary; Carole Moore, PGM, Treasurer; Cheryl Butler, GO, Assistant Treasurer. Elected to the Board for a three-year
term were Cheryl Butler, GO, Shirley Alcolea, Kim Lorenc, GO, and Katherine Robinson, GO. We welcome them to the Board and look forward to serving with them.

Home Day
Sister Sharon Rosequist, MWGM will be doing a Home Day this year. It will be held on Saturday, May 10, 2025, at the Crescent Shrine. More information will be announced at a later date. I hope to see you all there.

Refresh and Renew Project
Nursing Unit A Refresh/Renew project has been completed. We are now focusing on Nursing Unit B and the Shower Room on that unit. We thank everyone who has donated to the Refresh/Renew Project. It is because of your generosity that this was possible. If
you would like to make a donation, please make your check payable to the “New Jersey Eastern Star Home, Inc.” put Refresh/Renew on the memo line, and mail it to Carole
Moore, PGM, Treasurer. All donations made to our Home are Tax Deductible.

Rehabilitation Unit
We have a state-of-the art Rehabilitation Unit and hope that you will consider our facility should you or someone you know need our services. They provide Physical therapy, Occupational therapy and Speech therapy. All inquiries should be made to Shelretha
LaSure at the ES Home.

Volunteers
We are now open for volunteers. The residents miss the BINGO games, arts and crafts, sing-alongs, the plays/Chapter meetings that some of the Districts used to do, etc. If you
would like to volunteer to run any of the above, please call Simone Rudich at the ES Home. The Board of Directors and the Home thank you for your dedication to the residents and our Home. Simone is always looking to help with getting the wheelchair residents to the Boutique and to the salon. If you are interested in helping, please contact her at the ES Home.

Bequests
When planning for the future, you may not only be thinking about how to help your family, but also how you might benefit one or more charitable organizations. A charitable bequest
is one of the easiest gifts to make. You can create a bequest of any dollar amount. When you are preparing your will, please think about including our NJ Eastern Star Home.

Tree of Life
The Tree of Life has received some new leaves and rocks, make sure you check it out the next time you are at the Eastern Star Home. If you would like to have a leaf or rock added to the Tree of Life, you can obtain the form by calling the Eastern Star Home at
908-722-4140. The forms for Leaves and Rocks are also printed in the Star Journal. Leaves are $500 and rocks are $1000. On behalf of the Board of Directors and the Home, I thank you for supporting this project.

Gown Boutiques
We are planning for a gown Boutique for September 21, 2024, at Atlas Chapter from 9am to 3pm. I want to thank the Home Board, the Elected Line and the many volunteers and the DeMolay Boys that are always there to help us. Where can you purchase a gown for $5, it’s a bargain, come to Atlas Chapter and check out the gowns, skirts, tops, tuxedos,
and shoes.

Donations
There are other opportunities for giving that will benefit our Home, besides those previously mentioned. You can contribute towards the Commemorative Gardens, which provides a beautifully landscaped outdoor space for our residents to enjoy. We have had
to make several repairs to the Commemorative Gardens this year. There are the Resident Welfare Funds for both our members and the general public residents. You can designate a donation for our Building Fund which helps maintain our facility. No matter where you chose to direct your donation, remember that the NJ Eastern Star Home is a 501c(3) Organization, and your donation is tax deductible. Please designate your choice on the memo line of your check, and mail it to Carole Moore, PGM, our treasurer.

Claire-Marie Scheffbuch Wing
Due to the generous donations received in the past from the Estate of Sister Claire-Marie, a wing of our facility will be dedicated in her name. The date of the dedication will be announced in the future. We are hoping to have the dedication around the end of
September. We are truly grateful to Sister Claire-Marie for everything that she has done for our Home.

Awards
We have had several employees receive awards this year. Dr. Dawn Giakas our Administrator was honored with the prestigious Excellence in Leadership award, bestowed by Leading Age New Jersey & Delaware during the 2024 Awards Program which illuminates the facility with her remarkable accomplishments. This accolade symbolizes not only Dr. Giakas’ personal triumph but also the collective celebration of NJESH’s transformative journey under her stewardship. Gus Guido has been unanimously chosen as a distinguished recipient of the Asia’s Golden Icon Award 2024.
The Asian’s Golden Icon Award recognizes individual achievers that have significant impact in the community or have shown excellence in their area of expertise. Nicholas Patullo jumped into a freezing river to rescue the occupants who were trapped in a car underwater. Nick received the Valor Award from the 200 Club of Somerset County for Bravery. I congratulate them on their awards and thank them for their dedication. There are articles in the Journal on the three of them.

In closing I want to thank all the employees who work at our Eastern Star Home for their dedication and support of our residents and Home. To all our members, thank you for your continued support to our residents and our home.

In Star Love,
Deborah Lynn LeDoux, GO
President



  Skilled Nursing Week

The following was done for Skilled Nursing week at the Home.
• Eastern Star Home gave out approximately 140 prizes to staff members of the facility, PT and Dietary.
• Prizes were given out for Bingo, Star Search and Guess the candy amount.
• Gave out prizes of appreciation to all staff. So, everyone received something.
• Held staff Bingo and Star Search, which was extremely well received by staff and included our residents as “star” holders.
• Each day was a different theme, “Wear Pink Day”, “Funky Hat Day”, etc.
• Lori made up goodie baskets for each unit to Enjoy on Sunday.
• Held an appreciation Breakfast on Monday morning for all staff.
• Tuesday, they had a Mary Kay representative with demo’s and give-a-ways.
• Ice Cream treats for staff on Wednesday.
• Reverend Johnson came in and did a “Blessing of the Hands” for staff.
• Had Chris Giakas Entertainment for our Sock Hop Lunch and he also played for patients and residents in Unit 2 and Sub-Acute, who thoroughly enjoyed the experience.
• Sodexo provided lunch on Thursday for our Sock Hop. Staff enjoyed hamburgers, hot dogs, French fries, onion rings, milk shakes and root beer floats.
• On Friday and Saturday, we had Pizza lunch for all staff.


Simone and Lori put their heads together to come up with different ideas for prizes and events for the employees. The Employees of the Home want to thank everyone who donated to the Skilled Nursing Week. Because of your generous donations we
were able to honor the employees.


  Nicholas Patullo Received the Valor Award

Nicholas Patullo, Director of EVS and Safety & Security, NJESH

On the afternoon of January 22, 2022, the Hillsborough Fire companies were dispatched to an area on South Branch River Road for a vehicle in the river with occupants trapped inside.

Arriving before the fire apparatus, Nick and 2 other firefighters were first on the scene and Nick jumped into the 30 degrees, freezing cold river, along with another firefighter and a police officer and accessed the situation and immediately began rescue operations. They forced open the driver’s side door and were able to get the lone occupant, an elderly female who was hanging upside down, still with her seatbelt on, removed from the vehicle. She was unconscious and immediately turned over to the EMT’s, who were able to revive her.


As a result of these quick and selfless actions of these men, the victim survived the accident. She just passed away in 2024, due to unrelated health issues.

Their actions, specifically placing the wellbeing of the victim above their own personal safety and operating in extreme conditions with no protective gear, underscore the duty and commitment of Nick and his fellow firefighters.

This selfless act of Nick’s shows the integrity and empathy that NJESH benefits from having this heroic employee working for us. He brings this spirit with him to work each and every day to the benefit of our residents, staff and visitors.


On May 15, 2024, Nick and the other emergency responders received a Valor Award from the 200 Club of Somerset County for their bravery. The Board commends Nick for his heroism.

 




New Jersey Eastern Star Home’s Director of Nursing, Agustin (Gus) T. Guido III, has been unanimously chosen as a distinguished recipient of Asia’s Golden Icon Award 2024. The Asia’s Golden Icon Award 2024 recognizes individual achievers that have significant impact in the community or have shown excellence in their area of expertise.

Gus is deserving of this award; he has been an avenue of change for the healthcare community. Gus has managed facilities with Traumatic Brain Injury, Ventilators, Sub-Acute Rehabilitation, and Long-Term Care. Since taking the role as Director of Nursing at New Jersey Eastern Star Home, Gus has led our team with no facility acquired COVID deaths for the past 4 years, his passion for education led to the facility’s 2 day staff education fair, that was highlighted and became an example on a national level, where he implemented fun and interactive ways for staff to learn about state required topics, such as Dementia, Fall Risk, Infection Control, and many other topics. Gus is a published author, and has been elected as the Vice President of the New Jersey Association of Directors of Nursing Administration in Long Term Care.

New Jersey Eastern Star Nursing and Rehabilitation Administration, staff, and colleges are proud to celebrate Gus’ achievement, as it is a positive reflection of the knowledge, and excellence in the healthcare field.



                       
 
May 9, 2024

Dear Family and Friends,

I hope this letter finds you well. First off, on behalf of the residents as well as myself we would like to thank everyone for their generous donations to contribute to our monthly boutique as well as our community.

Our monthly Boutique is a social event our residents are
always looking forward to attending. You are all truly
making a difference for the residents and community here at
New Jersey Eastern Star.

Here at New Jersey Eastern Star Home we aim to develop
various programs, that encourage and allow our residents to strive in growth and their personal capabilities and cater to their diverse interests. Thanks to your contributions, our residents have had the opportunity to create festive holiday decorations to display in their rooms and throughout our facility. Moreover, your donations have
enabled our residents to make and supply much-needed beds and blankets to our local animal shelter. These activities, exemplify just a fraction of the positive impact of your generosity. I am reaching out to see if you would be willing to help me spread the word around the community to see if anyone would be interested and willing to donate supplies to help enrich our seniors through programming and more as well as, to our monthly boutique.

Below is a list of items our residents have expressed interest in seeing at our next monthly boutique.

As always, any donations are greatly appreciated.

Thanks for your time.
Kindly,
Simone Rudich
Director of Activities
New Jersey Eastern Star Home
111 Finderne Ave Bridgewater, NJ 08807
908-722-4140 ext. 3527
srudich@njeasternstarhome.com 

SEE ATTACHED FLYER...
Newsletter Article NJESH.pdf


  FORMS FOR THE NJ EASTERN STAR HOME

OES Home - flyer.pdf

Renew_Refresh_Project.pdf

Becoming a resident_Flyer.pd


Tree-of-Life-Order-Form-LEAF.pdf

Tree-of-Life-Order-Form-ROCKS.pdf

Delegates Alternates and Officers Election Report Form.docx